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Think of 3 good things that happened today and analyze why they occurred.

Hey! Well since its so early i have 3 but i will write on this subject later also...... My 3 good things are that i woke up, my boyfriend called, and i ate... the last one is pretty stupid but i couldnt think of anything else... lol The reason why i woke up was because God didnt want me to die and my boyfriend called..... My boyfriend called me because i told him so and he always calls me when he gets in from work... So when he called i got up and ate because i was hungry and my stomach was growling.... lol

*Anyways*

Yesterday i didnt go driving cuz my dad was supposively sick but im going today maybe...... im really tired and i really dont want to drive but hey i have to get my hours in so i can get my licenses... yay i cant wait because theni dont have to wait or ask my parents well mymom to take me anywhere.... lol but im going to stop writing now... i have nothing else to say!!!

Mwah!!!

Yo watsup...hello every1...so long seh...actuali nt so...juz a few daes ago...juz passin' by 2 sae hello...

BYE!!!

Hey girls i got some really bad news for you!!! wensday morning Mrs.Lujan or also know as sara lujan died!=( its so sad she left behind 4 small children the oldest a fifth grader. So please keep her family and friends in your prayers please!!!! it would mean so much! really!1

R.I.P Sara Lujan

love katy

As the hot water rolls down her body she tells herself that the steam surrounding her will melt away the tormenting thoughts in her head. Does he love me? Is he just with me for my money? Am I the greatest love he's ever had? Will he leave me once we graduate and screw up like all the other men in my life? Am I going to face another heartbreak now that I've found true love? Am I certain that I'm truly in love with him and that this isn't just the beginning hype? Will I ever be able to live a day without being friends with my ex? Why is it that I love my ex but can't fall inlove with him? Why doesn't the thought of his kiss or his touch appeal to me? Will we grow apart one day and become a faint memory like all past relationships? Can he survive without me? Have I abandoned him on top of breaking his heart by telling him I don't love him after 5 years? Have I made the right choice? Why do I still need him so much even though it's been 3 years since the break up? Why do we still argue like if we were a couple? Where did all the happy moments go? Why can't we spend a month straight without wanting to rip each other's throats? Why can't we go back to the days I felt he was the only man for me? When did I stop loving him or did I ever really love him at all? Why did I always focus on his flaws and think of everything he wasn't rather than everything he was? Why can't I let him go even though I know I'm not in love with him? Why can't I believe my bf when he tells me he'll always love only me? What will I tell my bf when we get married if I decide to stay living with my mom who is single? Will having children ruin my marriage as it does to 85% of couples? Will I be an unfair parent and show preference to one of my children over the others? Will I get a good job when I graduate? Will I be the successful person everyone expects me to be in life? Will I have a happy marriage as I always wished? Why is it that my mother never was able to be happy in her marriage? What will happen when we die? Will I truly get to reunite with my loved ones? If I'm scared of what comes afterdeath does that mean that I don't believe in God? Can someoen truly feel what I feel in my heart for them?

Will I ever get enough sleep instead of having all these thoughts in my head?

These past 2 weeks have been challenging but great. I finally understood what most people usually say...that if you remain calm in aconfrontation you have more chances of winning.

Last weeks I finally got the 1 on 1 with my mom and I released all the steam of the things I was feeling inside. I didn't argue or yell as I normally do when I lose my patience. I remained calm, counted to ten, and presented reasonable facts backing up why and what I thought was wrong. I thought it didn't do any good...but this past weekend my mom has done what my bf calls a "360 degree turn."

Finally releasing everything I was feeling really helped my relationship with my mom. It feels SO good to know that deep down all the arguing she really listens to what I have to say and it feels good to know that she's putting all her effort in making our relationship work.